First Dance Song Ideas for Your Wedding

Choosing your first dance song is one of the most meaningful decisions of your wedding day. The right first dance song sets the tone for the evening, creates a beautiful moment you’ll remember forever and becomes part of your story as a couple. Whether you’re looking for modern favourites, classic romantic tracks or something more unique, this guide will help you explore the best first dance songs for your wedding.

As a full-time Wedding DJ, I’ve helped hundreds of couples choose the perfect first dance. Over the years, I’ve seen everything from classic ballads to stripped-back acoustic covers, upbeat surprises, and even mashups. There’s no “right” choice — only the song that feels like you.

This guide will help inspire you with popular options, unique suggestions and things to consider when choosing your first dance song.

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How to Choose Your First Dance Song

If you’re unsure where to begin, start with these simple steps:

1. Think about your relationship story

The best first dance songs often have personal meaning — something from your early dates, a favourite artist you both love, or lyrics that simply “feel right.”

2. Decide on the mood you want

Do you imagine something romantic and slow?
Or would you prefer a fun, upbeat moment that gets everyone clapping along?

3. Consider the tempo

Slow and steady is the classic choice, but mid-tempo tracks are becoming more popular because they’re easier to move to and feel more natural.

4. Check whether you want an original or a cover

Covers can offer a softer, more intimate feel — perfect for couples who want something familiar but less dramatic.

5. Talk to your DJ

I can help you choose a version with the perfect length, offer edited cuts, or even create a custom mix if you want a slow start and a fun, upbeat finish.

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Listen to My First Dance Songs Playlist on Spotify

Over the last 20 years, I’ve collected hundreds of first dance requests from real weddings — everything from timeless classics to modern love songs and unique choices that meant something personal to each couple. To make your planning easier, I’ve curated these favourites into one simple playlist on Spotify.

It’s a great way to explore ideas together, discover trends and see what other couples have chosen for their big moment.

👉 Listen on Spotify: 

If you’d like to tailor the playlist or add your personal favourites, I’m always happy to help shape something unique for your day.

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Top 30 First Dance Songs of All Time

Here are some of the most loved first dance songs chosen by real couples across hundreds of weddings:

1. Perfect – Ed Sheeran
2. All of Me – John Legend
3. Amazed – Lonestar
4. Make You Feel My Love – Adele
5. Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran
6. You Are the Best Thing – Ray LaMontagne
7. I’m Yours – Jason Mraz
8. At Last – Etta James
9. Can’t Help Falling in Love – Elvis Presley
10. Your Song – Elton John
11. Wonderful Tonight – Eric Clapton
12. Grow Old With Me – Tom Odell
13. Say You Won’t Let Go – James Arthur
14. First Day of My Life – Bright Eyes
15. The One – Kodaline
16. You & Me – Lifehouse
17. Forever – Chris Brown
18. Better Together – Jack Johnson
19. All My Life – K-Ci & JoJo
20. Let’s Stay Together – Al Green
21. From This Moment On – Shania Twain
22. I Won’t Give Up – Jason Mraz
23. Truly Madly Deeply – S Garden
24. How Long Will I Love You – Ellie Goulding
25. Just the Way You Are – Bruno Mars
26. You’re Still the One – Shania Twain
27. One & Only – Adele
28. Because You Loved Me – Céline Dion
29. Unchained Melody – The Righteous Brothers
30. Everything – Michael Bublé

If you prefer something modern, alternative or completely unexpected, I’m always happy to suggest ideas based on your style.

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Want a Song Edit, Shortened Version or a Custom Mix?

Some songs feel a little long, and others take a while to “kick in.”
If you want:

• A shortened chorus-only edit
• A custom intro or fade-out
• A smooth transition into an upbeat party track
• A mashup of two favourite songs

I can create a personalised version that fits the moment perfectly.

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How I Help You Choose the Right First Dance Song

Every wedding booking includes:

• A pre-wedding music consultation
• Guidance on choosing your first dance
• Help deciding the song length and timing
• Optional lighting effects to enhance the moment
• A seamless transition into the party afterwards

If you already know your song, that’s perfect.
If not, I’ll help you find something that feels natural and meaningful.

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Ready to Plan the Soundtrack to Your Day?

If you’d like help choosing your first dance, shaping your playlist or planning the music for your full evening, I’m always happy to chat.

You can explore more ideas here:

• Wedding DJ Packages
• Testimonials
• About Me

Or feel free to get in touch anytime.

andy@herts-events.co.uk
07886 566 844
www.herts-events.co.uk

I’d love to help you create a first dance that feels authentic, emotional and unforgettable.